PLEASE HELP WITH MY FAMILY 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER GIVEN OUT TODAY!?

WOW! You said a mouth full! I apologize for everything you are going thru! I wondered, is there any family around that could possibly be utilized to assist, if not, by your father being military, i don't see why social services or a military agency, couldn't assist your family, at least with a in home care assistant to help your mom out and because you are too young to have to carry so much on your shoulders! But, believe me, there are programs out there that can help, your mom just has to take the lead to get those resources! Also, your father needs to get alittle more involved, i know he is in the Air force, but he is a father and Husband! Good luck to you and don't give up hope!!